Why are dads so important?
As a dad you will always try to do your best for your children. Yet many fathers are convinced that they are simply an extra set of hands to help around the house, rather than irreplaceable to their children. Some of the ways in which fathers contribute to their child’s wellbeing includes the following:
- Engaging in thought processes
- Showing affection
- Supporting emotionally
- Running errands
- Engaging in child-related maintenance
- Sharing interests
- Being available
- Sharing activities
The importance of fathers playing with their children has been the focus of much research and has been defined as just as important as the nurturing children get from their mothers. Fathers that play with their children encourage physical and mental stimulation which is important to your child’s development. Playing with your children as a dad also helps children understand and test boundaries in a safe environment, which helps them in countless ways as they figure out the world. Your interaction with your child even determines their language development by 2-3 years of age! So never stop talking to your child!
Another interesting piece of research has shown that dad’s mental health plays a far more significant impact a child’s social skills (e.g. self-control and cooperation) when children reached grade 5 than a mother’s influence! So it is very important that you not only take care of yourself physically but that you also ensure good mental health so that you can influence your child’s development positively!
This is just a small sampling of the growing research that shows how important a father-child relationship is for your child’s social development. So dads don’t ever think you are not important- because you most certainly are!
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